Inspired by the timeless guidance of planner Mindy Weiss, gratuities should never feel obligatory—they’re thoughtful gestures that recognize exceptional dedication and care.
The ranges provided are based on current industry standards and meant only as general guidance. Every wedding, vendor, and experience is unique, and we always leave the final decision entirely to you.
Your gratitude—whether expressed through a heartfelt note, kind words, or a tip—is a beautiful reflection of the appreciation you feel for those who’ve helped bring your day to life.
GRATUITIES & APPRECIATION
Shelby
YOUR tipping guide
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frequently asked questions
We highly suggest preparing a labeled envelope for each vendor and placing cash or personal checks inside. It's best to have these prepared in advance of your In Person Wrap Up Meeting in order to hand off to Shelby. This allows for a payment-free wedding day!
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what is the best method for tipping my wedding team?
If you are having a band at your reception, many will require payment via Cashier's check. It's best to prepare this in advance and hand off to Shelby at your In Person Wrap Up Meeting. For vendors such as hair and make up artists who do not have a final invoice until wedding day, you often may pay via Venmo or personal check.
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what is the best way to pay a vendor who requires payment on wedding day
That is completely up to you! We find most clients want to have peace of mind knowing everyone has been properly thanked before they move on to their honeymoon and newlywed life.
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what if we want to send tips after the wedding day?
